Monday, November 14, 2011

A Tip For You

Friend Drama

If the drama of your friends' annoys you, stop worrying about it.  Do not let their problems, only if they are minor but your friends are blowing them up, cause you stress in life.  There is too much of that already with everything else going on in the world they don't need to add on.  Now if the drama is something that does deal with you then maybe you should talk to them about it and try to get things resolved.  If that doesn't work then it's time for tough love, so tell them how you really feel and do not sugarcoat it.  They'll be better off for it and might learn to calm down.


Drama Friend
Now for those who start the drama...Stop It.  If it's something little and really not that big a deal, then why are you so upset about it?  That's right, this whole thing started over something stupid and has now escalated into this big thing that is probably pushing you away from your friends, who you so graciously pulled into the middle of it.  No sit and think, is this really something you wanna argue about or is it time to just be the bigger person and just end it.  I can't tell you which to do, but i can say that if everyone you talk to looks annoyed about having the conversation with you then its probably not something worth arguing about.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Intro

Alright for those who don't know me, I like to help.  Basically I made this because I'm so used to seeing people upset or sad or lonely or whatever and I don't like that.  We, people, as a whole, are only on this Earth for so long and we shouldn't be spending that time miserable.  I would like to correct this. I am no doctor nor will I pretend to be one...this blog is not for professional help, if you need professional help I urge you to seek it out from those who, for a lack of a better term, are professionals. But for those who need friendly help and for those who are down and for those who just need someone to listen, I am here for you as a friend.  If i can help just one person out there my job will be complete.  So for all of you out there who need someone...Hi I'm Here To Help.